Ever wondered who or what has control of your life? Interestingly, some people believe that much of life is up to fate. You may need to discover the secret forces that control us.
The truth is that there are two most powerful secret forces that control us. These two powerful forces shape your success or your failure. They control who you become. In fact, these two forces could make or break you. And these forces do not care about who you are, where you are from or what you look like. Actually, the wealthiest man on earth and poorest man on earth are controlled two forces. Would you like to know these two powerful secret forces that control us?
Here are the two most powerful secret forces that control us:
- Time
- Change
What you should know about time?
Time is what we use to determine the beginning and the end or any stage we find ourselves in. In other words, time is how we measure life. We use time to measure seasons. The one thing we all have in common is the amount of time available in a day. Indeed, time is life. Regardless of your race, financial status or intellectual capacity cannot stop time, speed up time or slow down time.
Since we all have the same 24 hours in a day, who we become is influenced by what we do with our time. Without time, it will be difficult to separate our past, present and future.
More so, time is a currency. We spend our time to buy life. Meaning that if you invest your time wisely, you can buy more life. Meanwhile, you can abuse, devalue or depreciate your time. By hanging out with the wrong people or engaging in wrong activities, you are abusing your time. Remember, time is the only commodity you cannot get back if lost.
What you should know about Change?
Change is one of the two secret forces that control us. No matter how hard you try you can never stop change. Like the saying goes: change is the only constant thing in our lives. You may resist or try to fight it but eventually you will have to bow.
Good or bad, change is part of life. And it regulates how much we grow as we go through life. Everything in the universe is affected by change. How do you respond to change? Even other living creatures know not to fight with change. Certainly, plants adjust to change in seasons accordingly. Leaves fall during a certain season, while pollination and fruit-bearing occur during distinct seasons. In spite of change being powerful, our attitude towards change determines how happy our lives will be.
In essence, time and change work hand-in-hand to control our lives. As a result, we see trends, styles, cycles and conditions throughout our existence.
A stranger once told me his only wish is to possess the superpower to control both time and change. That would be super cool! Part of me wishes I have that.
But wait a minute!
Here’s how we can take charge of our lives from the forces that control us:
Life is a game. And you are the player. Like every game, you are either scoring or being scored on. For instance, in a soccer game there are players who protect the goal post from being scored on and there are players who attack the ball.
First, ask yourself this: “am I playing offense or defense right now in my life?”
By playing offense, you establish your life in a way that you only pursue things that align with your purpose. You make arrangements for changes that you will face as you transition through the stages of life. Conversely, playing defense enables you to attack the things that steal your time away from you. For example things like instant gratification, wrong opportunities and toxic relationships can steal your time and destroy your life.
Thus, it is very important to know when to we should play offense or defense in our lives. Basically, that is the only way we can take charge from the two secret forces that control us.
Do these two things consistently if you want to control your life:
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Living Consciously
Are you living a distracted life? Or are you constantly comparing yourself with the achievement of others? Unfortunately, most people go through life without really living. It’s no news, that our minds tend to be distracted by our neediness and greediness. Most times, wanting what others have with the illusion that having the same things our peers have will make us happy.
Basically, living consciously has a lot to do with our minds. What we focus on? How we think about ourselves and others. And why we do what we do. Since we can easily be lost in our lust of luxury and security, the need for conscious living can never be over-emphasized.
Besides, we are playing defense when we live consciously. Because we guard our minds from negative thoughts. And reinforce our minds with positive thoughts that foster our satisfaction and fulfillment.
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Planning
In life, there are cycles. Sometimes we are in the upward cycle and other times we find ourselves in the downward cycle. The upward cycle comprise of the seasons when every things is going good and we seem to be flourishing. For instance, this will be known as the bull market in the economy when stock prices are high and returns are positive.
Where as, the downward cycle involves the seasons in life where nothing seems to be bright. And all the negative things tend to be happening to us at once. Interestingly, all the crisis you can imagine strike at the same time during this season. A good example will be the bear market in the economy when returns plunge and many sectors crash.
How do you control your life during the unfavorable seasons or the downward cycle? Love it or hate it, you will definitely face the upward and downward cycles of life. Your only solution is planning.
Through planning we learn to live proactively, instead of reacting to everything that happens to us or around us. Significantly, creating a plan gives our lives direction and sense of purpose. Not to mention, the plans we make affects our priorities as well as what we focus on. Therefore do not hesitate to plan whenever you need to get your life back on track.
KEY TAKEAWAY:
- Manage your time wisely
- Embrace change and stop resisting change
- Through planning you can regain control of your time
- Living consciously helps you redeem your time
- To take ownership and control of your life, you must design your life for changes through time.
- Through planning you establish your your priorities and go after your passion
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